When we replaced our septic system, I had visions of a quick fix—tear up the ground, install the new system, smooth things over, and move on with life. Reality had other plans.
Contractors arrived late (or didn’t show at all), deadlines slipped, and the pristine, carefully planned timeline unraveled faster than I could grab a shovel. So, like any determined and slightly exhausted person faced with unreliable professionals, we did what we had to do: we took matters into our own hands.
The Backbreaking Push Before the Storm
The turned-up soil was nothing more than hard, compacted red clay. You can't plant anything in it, and it does not drain water!
We HAD to fix this problem before the deluge or rain that was on the way. Nothing builds character quite like rushing to level ground before a storm hits.
We dug, raked, and fought against the clock. My muscles protested. My patience wore thin. The forecast loomed like a ticking time bomb. With little time left, we made a last minute decision to rent a mini skid steer to help us.
There’s a certain irony in working harder than you should, knowing your body isn’t what it used to be, only to watch the clouds roll in despite your hopes and prayers. Somehow, we pulled it together—just in time to see the first heavy rain test our work. The frustration faded, replaced by relief that the soil held, the drainage worked (sort of), and the impending mudslide never happened.
A Surprising Shift: Rethinking the Landscape
When the dust (or rather, the mud) settled, I looked at the newly disrupted space with fresh eyes. The original plan—meticulously drawn out—suddenly didn’t feel right anymore. The land had changed, and my perspective had shifted along with it.
Instead of forcing the old vision back into place, I let the landscape guide me. And much to my surprise, a wildflower garden began to take shape in my mind. What was once an area designated for structured beds and rigid planting rows suddenly felt more suited to a free-flowing, natural tapestry of blooms. The thought of letting wildflowers take over, filling in the space with bursts of untamed color, felt strangely right.
It was a revelation born from chaos—a chance to embrace the unexpected rather than fight against it.
The Joy of Seed Starting Amidst the Mess
With the big rebuild tackled, the true magic began: seed starting. There’s something poetic about watching tiny sprouts emerge from soil, especially after weeks of physical labor. Despite the setbacks, despite the exhaustion, nature found its rhythm.
The seedlings are stretching toward the light, eager and determined in a way that mirrored my own resolve.
The landscape plants, once battered by construction chaos, exploded with new growth—a triumphant reminder that perseverance pays off. Spring has sprung, and it's certainly a new day!
Looking Back and Growing Forward
In the moment, it was hard to find the silver lining amid the dirt spills, late contractors, and aching muscles. But today, standing in a thriving space rebuilt by sheer willpower, it’s clear: this journey, though frustrating, is worth every ounce of effort.
The seedlings are transforming into the beauty that will become the bouquets y'all will bring home. The landscape plants have claimed their place, thriving against the odds. And me? Well, I’ve earned a few extra aches, but also the satisfaction of knowing this space was shaped by patience, persistence, and a refusal to let setbacks define the season. How are you doing through the rainy season? Leave me a comment!
With Love and Blooms
FOXY
2 comments
Love the process and the determination and the flexibility and the tenacity. Survivor skills. Dig deep!
Love this. Good job baby!!